Welcome Steve!
Speaking from experience, I faded many years ago and if they wanted to I could be DF'ed for all sorts of things. my family is spread out all over Cali so if they wanted to, they could form the witch hunt. my take is I'm of little interest anymore, they probably have enough on their hands making their own Congo feel uncomfortable and sorting thru those with a free will who decide to ask questions they cannot answer.
I was swept under the rug, so were you most likely.